Bella Italia12 Apr 2010 08:48 am

I just had a traumatizing experience: I took on Florence alone. Not just going places, I’ve done that a lot before. I mean actually trying to accomplish things, things I had never done before. Of course I chose a Saturday, at almost 6pm. This meant that at least I didn’t have to wait in line for anything, but it also meant that what I was trying to do was impossible.

I ask “Biglietteria?” He says yes, go through security. No one else around. Security lady tells me I can’t bring in water, I try to explain that I don’t really want to go in. Talk to Biglietteria-man, ask about Amici Degli Uffizi pass, he tells me “Chiusso.” Ok, so when are they open? “Di la”, beckons with hand. I try and go around. “No!” other way. “Parla inglese?” Yes, yes, do you? “Go there and see when they are open.” Oh, ok. That should be easy. I go to the other window, start to read the signs. “No, no, over there.” Finally I see it, a banner with Amici degli Uffizi on it, next to an open doorway. As I procede towards it, another sign appears and I begin to read that. Then out of nowhere a woman appears. My poor, already frazzled brain is ready to die, and now this. “E chiusso!” I know, already, leave me alone! “Chiude alle 5. Five.” (Holds up fingers in my face.) Ok. (I have no idea what time it is.) E domani? “No, martedi.” Ok. So my trip here was in vain, utterly worthless, because I still don’t know which museums it’s good for, or even the hours of the place. Well, I’ll just go to the library. But wait, I’m still inside the building, and no exit in sight. The woman simply removes a rope and exits. I but on my bambi eyes (a temporary replacement for my deer-in-the-headlights look) and gesture that I want to leave that way too. Finally, freedom. “Your lucky that I was here.” You know it lady, without you I don’t know what I would have done, freak out maybe, or just run through security. Whatever.

So I made it outside, my trip inside having been entirely futile. Before I can leave the terrace and dissolve into the anonymity of Piazza Signoria, I am accosted by hoards of vendors. Not Italians, but even shorter, darker, and more insistent with their ploys to draw one into conversation. It is too long of a walk, I want to run, disappear into the crowds of tourists. Though a barrage of heavily accented Italian, which I luckily don’t understand, I finally make it to safety. The first time I was thankful for tourists.

I chose the quietest allies to meander my way toward the library. At one point I am about to cross a main street, and then: a protest! Of all things… I guess I’ll take the long way. My poor nerves. The bags of Haribo looked so enticing, but sugar is not the answer to my problems. I avoid the posse of Carabinieri following the protest, wind my way up the stairs. I’ll get a library card later, I just need to sit down. Then, oh! So many people! But there, a table, a chair, upstairs, open-air, just for me. I sit down, relax, take a deep breath, *cough, cough.* It’s the smoking section.


Bella Italia09 Apr 2010 01:34 am

There is nothing in the world like watching a sunrise. From the first rays of light that spread over the sky, until the entire landscape is glimmering with golden brilliance. From the simple chirping of birds that beacon, to the roar of motors awakened and bustling. From the top of my hill I felt there was a trance on the world, released only by the sight of the glorious sun above the mountains. Or was the trance on me; separated from the awakening metropolis by rows of trees and a layer of smog. Whatever it was, it was gorgeous and worth experiencing again, even if I do have to get up three hours early.

Bella Italia08 Apr 2010 03:25 am

I’m sick of smarmy Italian guys. The guys that make catcalls, that try to lure one into conversation, that undress one with their eyes. I even long for the silent, distant Germans that are gentlemen, even though only by duty. At least they were gentlemen. But in every culture there are great people. People that don’t usually stand out, people that don’t match the stereotype, people that one wouldn’t meet under normal circumstances.

I miss meaningful, intense conversations with people from a totally different background. People that can take everything lightly and don’t get defensive. People that tease and banter, not bash and retort. Where are those people here?

I miss my job at Sankt Peter, but I especially miss my coworkers there. The environment of camaraderie, fun, and respect; the thrill of late nights to early mornings; the heart-to-heart chats ranging from philosophical to mundane; the smiling faces and cheery voices and Frau Falkenstein’s sleepy countenance.

I need to get out, meet some other Italians, learn the language, make some friends. It took effort to meet those great people in Germany, and it will take effort to meet others like them here or anywhere else I live. But good people are out there, and I am very excited to meet them. Someday I’ll miss them too.


Deutschland08 Apr 2010 03:20 am

There is nothing in the world like a long weekend with loved ones, especially when it is one long celebration!

I arrived Friday, slept till evening, and went with to the neighbor’s birthday party. We talked and drank until 1 am. Saturday morning I slept in, enjoyed breakfast and a relaxed morning before going out with another neighbor’s daughter with her friends for coffee in the afternoon and drinks all evening. They even stayed out till midnight in keeping with the German tradition to congratulate the Geburtstagskind as soon as the birthday begins. Sunday morning I was awoken by my mother on my cell phone singing mananitas. As we talked I looked out the window and saw it was snowing! God’s birthday gift to me…

At breakfast I learned that Mass at the little village church was already over. Well, I would have to go into town. Why not the Dom. Suddenly, my life took a glamorous turn. Dressed in my new gorgeous brown winter dress I was putting on extra socks to wear with my sandals(the only other shoes I brought besides tennis shoes), when I was urged to wear my hostesses wonderful boots instead. With my jacket and gloves on I felt like royalty. And then, I was driven to church in the latest model of Mercedes (my host works for the company) by a daring driver showing off the special features of his car. I’ve learned by know how good of drivers Germans are, and how good their cars are, that I was able to enjoy the scenery flashing by, rather than see my life flashing before my eyes.

My special day was a lucky day, because I got to hear the Cathedral Band play at mass. After lunch and homework, which turned into a nap, we went to the Oma’s for coffee and Kuchen. Ah, the delicacies of the German household… After some set up for the Oma’s party the next day, what started as a toast to the Birthday Girls turned into a party – German style. Armfuls of liquors were brought to the kitchen table. Some were so old that a spoon was necessary to get to the liquid itself. Of the few good ones we enjoyed a round, where as of the bad one taste was enough and we had to wash out our glasses. Soon we had separated the bottle into baking, tossing, and empties.

That evening I discovered the Olympics and cheered for the Germans with everyone else. At some point, my birthday ended and the Oma’s began. In the morning I was greeted by a table of hour de’ vours and mimosas. After that there was soup and bretzel and… That was when it began to dawn on me that Germans never stop eating and drinking on festive days. This idea was reinforced when we headed over to the hall for coffee and Kuchen. This pattern was to continue as buffet dinner was served at 7pm with drinks to accompany. Unfortunately for me, the party ended then. I have school tomorrow and I can’t miss Midterms. At 4:30 I said good-bye and was driven to the train station.

Now my train is pulling away from the Hauptbahnhof. As Italians say Partire e un po’ morire (to leave is to die a little) and that is exactly how I feel. Is the party really over? Do I really have to go? I will just have to look forward to the next time I visit.


Bella Italia26 Jan 2010 10:58 am

Last weekend a group of us went to Lucca, a gorgeous city.   Very clean, very peaceful, with a wall around it that you can walk on.  Famous for olive oil and sweets. mmm.
Weekend before last we went to Siena, which is also gorgeous, but in a different way. It has rolling hills, with houses stacked on the slopes and a gentle haze over it all. That cathedral was so amazing. I just wanted to lay on the floor and admire the ceiling.
This weekend we go to Rome for two days. I am very excited! We are going to the Pantheon and the Vatican, among other things. I can’t wait…

So much has happened in so little time it feels like we have been here so much longer than just three weeks. Is that really all it has been?! Everything is still novel and exciting. Once that wears off and we have to buckle down to school, time will fly. Right now I am happy that the beauty still impresses me. Inevitably it becomes mundane after seeing it for weeks and months. Just keep reminding how amazing it really is to be here…

Classes are a drag sometimes, just because they keeps us from doing other things, but really, they are not that bad. Every class is pertinent to the world around me and actually it is great to be able to slowly understand my surroundings better. Italian history, art history, Italian language, and Italian cinema all expand my knowledge and comprehension of daily life in this country. I love it! The biggest drag is all of the reading, but even that is interesting once I start, then I hate to put it down! I hope the entire year of classes is this way. If it ever gets boring, I will not survive…

Bella Italia11 Jan 2010 10:50 am

Finally I’m settled, for a year.  I will only have to move houses and take short trips.  No more intense packing.  No more long-term goodbyes.

USA11 Jan 2010 09:31 am

Christmas felt completely different this year, even though I spent it with some of the same people. My host family from Frankfurt was here for 10 days. A whole ten days.

I love them to death, and I am eternally grateful for their generosity over the year I lived with them, but this visit reminded just how much like family they really are. You know what I mean… right?

I mean, in high school I used to get so upset with my parents that I would yell and sob. Or I would get so embarrassed by them that I just wanted to disappear. That’s part of being a family too.

The only thing with a host family is that you don’t have the unconditional love that real families do.

Now that I’m on the topic…
The first half of a year I was so afraid to do something terribly wrong and get sent away for it that I could never relax. They were just volunteers so if they got fed up with me they would just have to say the word and I would be history. I had seen it happen to other people.
The second half of the year I was so used to them that I almost wanted to be move. Not really, but that was when the other side of being a family kicked in. The little things start to bother one. The excitement had worn off. In marriage you would say that the honey moon stage was over.

In hind sight:
I understand how terrible it is for children who are adopted, especially if they have seen it happen before. Or for young married couples. Never let an immediate escape clause be part of a relationship. It sets it up for failure. Just stick it out. It’s after the grace period/ honey moon stage and the tough second stage that the lasting relationship begins. That’s why my host fam was invited to visit me.

USA11 Jan 2010 09:16 am

Then I was in the Land of Christmas. The first home of Christmas trees, Advent wreaths, and cookies. Where traditions hold strong, where candles are real and even electric lights on trees resemble their waxen forefathers. Where 1000 year old nativity sets are not so rare. Where Christmas is much more than just one day out of the year…

Well, this year Christmas snuck up on me. I was so busy with my classes, my business, and my travels that I didn’t even realize what day it was until… well, ’til now. And now it is 2010. Wow.

The Christmas tree at home, the pies and the extended work hours at the bakery should have gotten my attention, but I was just so tired after work that all I wanted was a long winter’s nap. I already had visions of sugar cookies dancing in my head.

I guess what I needed was a lighted Weinachts Markt, some ice skating, and more cookie baking (not selling) to get me in the mood. Next year. Or should I say, THIS year.

God Bless.
Merry Christmas Season.
And a very Happy New Year.

USA24 Aug 2009 08:02 am

Oh, Dear…
I am terribly behind. I had seriously considered for a while giving up this blog, but due to popular demand I have begun again.
I have a lot to catch up on, but that will have to be another day.

Today is my first day of classes. I began my day with an 8am class, and then my next class is at 1. So inbetween I get to do fun things like get on my new, adorable, extremely portable notebook computer. It is so small that it could fit inside a three-ring binder. It is fun to walk around campus without anyone knowing that I have a computer in my bag. It makes me feel like James Bond…
Of course later this brake will be used to “study” but this week I can use it to get my life organized, and my blog. I hope you will have some spare time to read it. Enjoy!
And wish me luck on my newest venture on the road of life.

Deutschland10 May 2009 02:05 pm

Heaven is Where:
The Police are British,
The Chefs are Italian,
The Mechanics are German,
The Lovers are French
and
It’s all organized by the Swiss.

Hell is Where:
The Police are German,
The Chefs are British,
The Mechanics are French,
The Lovers are Swiss
and
It’s all organized by the Italians.

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